--- after office hours ---

Nov 13, 2006

I decided to create another post, coz I think that whatever I write here should not be mixed up with the emotions I feel in the previous post.

Many things happened this week.
And, I can only say....
It's really difficult for people from different backgrounds to live together.

I do not mean to offend anyone with the following paragraphs.

When we know that we are somewhat in the wrong, I believe we all try to be defensive. This is not wrong, this is human nature. But, I hope that when we've cooled down, we can sit back and reflect on what the other person says and try not to do it again.
Nothing in this world is perfect, but we can always make things a little better.

Birds may lose their way when it is cloudy coz they cannot see clearly, but when the skies are clear again, they will find their way back to their flock.

Hopefully this helps you, if you are in need of it.

If you sentence the person to death even before the person gets a chance to explain himself, you are also depriving yourself of the chance to see things clearly. Why take away that chance? Perhaps it will be better for you too.
Clear skies are usually more desirable than cloudy skies.

I always believe in clapping. Coz sound can only be produced when you clap and problems will only arise when 2 parties are at fault.
Both parties are entitled to present their stories to the judge.
In the court, other than the prosecutor and defence lawyer are allowed to take sides, the rest of the people should not judge or take sides, because this is unfair to the defendant.

If this helps...
Sometimes, you disappoint people without you knowing.
You think that they disappoint you, but in fact, you are disappointing them too.
Who goes through life without disappointments?

Like what I saw in my friend's blog....
If you enjoy the rainbow, you have to get past the rain first.

I hope the people who reads this will understand my stand.
I am not trying to change anything, I am just writing this cause I care.

Left a note at 4:20:00 AM