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May 29, 2009

Maybe

Perhaps we've all made this mistake...or used this excuse...

We go out with some friends..we never ask some other friends along.
I know I sometimes commit this to some particular friends...
I know I come up with excuse sometimes to get past it.
Why an excuse?

2 different groups of friends may not click.
Unless you want me to tell the real reason, I guess most pple are more comfortable with an excuse..or maybe not...

I just got one of this excuse from a friend of mine.
I was abit pissed, to be honest.
However, as I think about it...I dont want to blame this friend.
I just feel sad.
I dont think I cannot talk to that other friend. I dont think I dislike the other friend.But maybe it's just my assumption.

Maybe we've just assumed too much.

You assumed that I am not free.
I assumed that I am close to this other friend.
You assumed that I dont like to hang out with this other friend.
I assumed that you are not respecting me.

Left a note at 4:03:00 PM